Wednesday, August 27, 2008

goodbye pool




I took the kids to the pool yesterday for one last swim. I wish we could have spent more time there this summer. The kids are oddly pale for this point in the summer. We did have some fun times there this summer though and saying good bye is the first sign of fall.
This was the first time I took Isaiah there by myself. We got a nice shady spot and the weather was perfect so he was pretty happy to be there. It was kinda funny to breastfeed there with all these pre-teen boys running around. But no one seemed to notice, or I couldn't see them blush through all the sunshine. Either way, it was uneventful (besides the spit up in my hair... but thats normal for these days) and a nice day to say good bye and store up the good memories until next summer.









Thursday, August 21, 2008

Church breastfeeding


Breastfeeding at church has been very uneventful so far. I didn't really expect any "hubub", my church is way too liberal and progressive for that. But still, there is just the fact that my boob is out in church, while praying and singing, etc. And I think the only one with the hang up about it has been me. This surprises me because I've been one to whip it out whenever and wherever.
So I had to do a little soul searching on this one. And what hit me was the fact that God designed my body to do this, and He designed Isaiah to need to breastfeed. And of course, everyone ever in the Bible, including Jesus himself, was breastfed. So why should I be worried about doing this in God's house?
And after I thought about things that way, I lost my worries about it. And last week I sat next to my Dad at church with boob proudly out and nursing my sweet son through the first half of service (and after that he burped as loud as humanly possible and had everyone within a few rows cracking up!).

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

I love breastfeeding!

I'm wearing a skirt today that didn't even fit before I got pregnant! It's been a long time since it fit! I love breastfeeding!!! I haven't even started exercising yet. I can't exercise until after my 6 week appointment and then hopefully. I hope the pounds roll off even easier then. That's what happened when I was breastfeeding Aiden. It's the best diet around!

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Why I breastfed my babies

I read recently that the percentage of breastfeeding moms is on the rise lately. It makes me wonder what all those women who don't breastfeed are thinking. I understand health reasons if a mom is unable and moms who are forced to go right back to work and are gone for most of the day, (Although if you are that poor, it seems the financial benefits of breastfeeding would be good for them. Pumps are available for free or dirt cheap from most social service offices). I spent way too much time in the last few months watching A Baby Story and shows like that and saw so many moms get talked into quitting by a selfish husband or an uptight grandma. Things like that make me wanna scream.
But rather than scream, I just thought I'd write why I do choose to breastfeed my babies.
1. Breast milk is free. And it is always available. I cannot see paying for something that my body makes for free. Maybe I'm just too frugal. Or cheap. But I could never justify the cost of formula when I can make it and cost us absolutely nothing.
2. It is always the perfect food for the baby. It is always the perfect temperature. It is always the perfect nutrition. A mother's milk has just the right amount of fat, sugar, water, and protein that is needed for a baby's growth and development.
3. It helps me lose weight faster. Breastfeeding burns 500 to 1000 calories a day. And when you're a woman like me, that's an awesome benefit.
4. Breastfed babies tend to score higher on IQ tests and be more well rounded in their education. How could I not do something with that long term of a benefit for my kids?
5. Breastfeeding lowers the risk of breast and ovarian cancers, and possibly the risk of hip fractures and osteoporosis after menopause. This was always an important factor for me, but after watching my Mom's struggle with breast cancer this year, it's become even more important to me.
6. Breastfeeding saves on health care costs. Total medical care costs for the nation are lower for fully breastfed infants than never-breastfed infants since breastfed infants typically need fewer sick care visits, prescriptions, and hospitalizations. I'm always shocked to hear how often other kids go to the doctors, my kids might go once in two or three years.
7. Breastfeeding is better for the environment. There are no empty formula cans to throw away, no old bottles to toss out and no energy use in heating the milk.
8. Breastfeeding forces me to take some down time every few hours. I sit on the couch with my baby at the breast and have time to nap or read. This is a sanity-saver, especially in these first few weeks.
9. I personally like the "tradition" of breastfeeding and knowing that I'm sharing in an "art" that women have been doing for all of time.
10. I love knowing that at any moment I have the perfect solution to any problem Isaiah might be having. I can help him when he's hungry, help him go to sleep, help him feel warmer, provide a safe place, hold him close, bond with him, make him stop crying, help him relax, help him feel secure. I can immediately be his source of comfort any time of day.
And also- when you exclusively breastfeed, no periods!!
Here are a few more statistics about the benefits to the baby:
-Breast milk has agents (called antibodies) in it to help protect infants from bacteria and viruses. Recent studies show that babies who are not exclusively breastfed for 6 months are more likely to develop a wide range of infectious diseases including ear infections, diarrhea, respiratory illnesses and have more hospitalizations. Also, infants who are not breastfed have a 21% higher postneonatal infant mortality rate in the U.S.
-Some studies suggest that infants who are not breastfed have higher rates of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) in the first year of life, and higher rates of type 1 and type 2 diabetes, lymphoma, leukemia, Hodgkin's disease, overweight and obesity, high cholesterol and asthma. More research in these areas is needed (American Academy of Pediatrics, 2005).

Friday, August 8, 2008

Introductions

My son, Isaiah, was born almost a month ago and has been breastfeeding non-stop ever since. Yesterday while nursing at the Kelly Miller Circus, I thought it would be interesting to keep a journal about my experience with breastfeeding. I've breastfed two children before and nursed in all sorts of crazy places and had many different reactions. So this time around, I'd like to write it all down and document the experience.

So far, I've breastfed Isaiah in a few public places. I have a few nursing shirts but keep forgetting to actually wear them when I'm going out in public! We've nursed at the coffee shop last Friday while seeing a friend's performance. Last Saturday we were at the Highland Festival and did some in-the-sling nursing. I forgot to wear a nursing shirt for that day, so I had to nurse with my belly exposed. Not my favorite thing to do, but I'd never say no to a hungry baby! And then yesterday we breastfed while at the Circus. And again I forgot to wear a nursing shirt! Ugg!

Last night at the Circus I was thinking while nursing that our society doesn't make a lot of basic functions very easy for people. It's no wonder women get so uptight about public nursing. There were perfect chairs in the "private seat" section but I couldn't use one even though it would have made breastfeeding so much easier. I have to think back before formula that women would have been provided with a chair at least. I don't really require privacy, I'm proud to nurse my baby anytime, but I also don't need the world staring at me. A chair pulled back behind the bleachers would have been a perfect place to nurse- I could have still watched the Circus and had a happy baby.